I have newly received an invitation to the trade fair taking place by the end of this year. Same fair that i visited last time just before covid19 outbreak followed by heavy restrictions. This year invitation reminded me about chain of events from last visit in December 2019 😀🙃 this story is all about what some ppl do on so called business trips 👩🏻🏫
How does business trip to trade fair work? They all work almost same way. There are exhibitors and there are visitors. First day, all are active and 100% concentrated. And thats about it 😄 day 2 and day 3 is a disaster from business point of view cause everything happens first night! Not for all but for quite many 😁
Day 1 is normally ends with party where suppliers and buyers meet. Its a good initiative to make parts to mingle and interact leisurily. But thats not the only way how to see it 😊 its a time where all are free to do whatever cause they are alone in some far city. So they drink exessively 🥂🍻 ..no wife or husband around.. no kids.. staying alone in the hotell in double for single use room and feeling the urge and need to live and act as singles do..just for this short period of 2-3 days. So what would singles do in the evening, after partying and getting drunk??? Yes, singles or not, wether true or fake, anyone would try to get laid 😁 so, these guys, men in fancy suits, working as ceo,owners, sales ppl, managers, act as singles in order to have one-night-stand 😁 by now u should guess that something happened that last trade fair in Barcelona in December.
The party first evening was great.. live band.. a lot of food, wine, snacks. Everything was complimentary. I was alone, i knew some people from the fair but i kind of hate to mingle when its a lot of disturbing elements such as crowds of ppl, lights, music, different sounds and smells while trying to converse. Its simply too messy. so i enjoyed the party on my own, eating and drinking and having fun on my own. I was not expecting any adventure that evening!! Excited of everything unknown and mainly happy 👻
Random ppl were approaching, asking if i was alone and inviting to join them and i spent like five minutes with each "invitor" group and then moved on to next and next and next 😊😊 untill a canadian man approached me, was easy to recognise the origin since he had canadian flag in his hand, nice white shirt of good quality, he was not tall , around 175, wrestler body, blond hair and blue eyes. His opening was, i love ur dress, its gorgeous with open back... and then he went on and on.. he had a french name or surname, dont remember.. he introduced himself briefly..a 50 years old company owner, exhibiting blablabla
He then started his charm campaigne and i couldnt stop bloody giggles which gave him confidence i guess.. guys love when women giggle 😁🤭they think they are funny and charming if she laughs. One of the advises girls get in order to attract guys, is to laugh.. like a lot🤣 everybody knows that men fall for it..😁 Or giggle like me🤭🤭..with a difference that i dont need to pretend giggling, but if he knew why i was giggling he would most probably left without saying goodbye 🤭
I am quite sure he thought that everything goes as it should be and he wont spend this night alone. Me, on the other hand, couldnt stop giggling not because his jokes were funny but because i knew what he was up to, i knew his expectations and i also knew how its going to end🤫. But he obviously didn't know what i knew which made the whole situation amusing 🤣🤣 Is there a girl that wouldnt notice what this all about?? He was a manager of a medium company while i wasnt. he was a white middleage man thinking he can just impress me with his what? Boat? House? belongings?. he showed me pictures of what he owns, things and stuff. He said he was single.. but he wasnt, i found his facebook page while he was trying to impress me but decided to not to destroy his "little show" by revealing the truth. I was having fun , it was entertaining.. while he was building his hopes 😂
Then he started to bore me, which means "time to go home". And my home was a beautiful hotel directly on plaza catalunya, brand new and modern iberostar. He was staying in crown plaza. So i said goodbye and left, but he runs after me and wants to follow me, maybe to go to restaurang? I said no, i just ate and want to sleep. But he was not up to that. He wanted adventure and i wanted him to understand there wont be anything more. Lets take taxi? Nope, i take a shuttle bus, u can take a taxi. No, i take bus with u. Ok, if u want 🤷🏻♀️
In the bus situation changed, we had nice coisy atmosphere and he changed the tactics. Now came his life story. I started to melt. I like to listen to stories, building a movie in my head, writing a manuskript, producing film about him. A guy from a small town. Big family. Getting into criminal world and making friends there, connection with dirty cops etc I asked him what could make him very very angry, almost aggressive? He replied, when man hits woman. Not often i hear that, i grew up in the society that consider it ok. Then he told me a story. He was a good storyteller btw 🙂
He had an employee and one day she came at job with visible bruises. Same day he makes an appointment with her husband but instead of him his friends kidnap the husband and beat shit out of him. Same evening he gets a call from friends asking if he wants them to finish the guy and make the body disappear. And then, he says, for the first time he realized which power he had in his hands, death or life, and he didnt like it. The husband were left alive with message if he ever hits his wife again he will be dead. he was so scared that he left her. And my canadian friend abandoned the small city where he lived and moves to a big city where he builds a business. Is this really a true story or just a bullshit? Might be part of his "working" over the subject (me)?! 😄😄
We reached my hotel and he wanted to follow to my hightech room. I said no. As i mentioned before i was not up to it. I said i was going to check rooftop bar and then go to bed. He happily, without invitation, followed with me to check a rooftop bar 😁. I start to feel his irritation with me being less cooperative. I took off my jacket as i got warm on which he commented, must be because of menopause. A 50 years old man feel so hurt that he is in need to remind me my age. I didnt get angry on his comment. I just find this comment utterly cheap for a real man, infringing my privacy somehow. This is not a subjectof a conversation with a stranger. Neither mens erection. For example, men start to lose their fabilous erection after 25 according to science, do i feel an urge to ask all guys over 25 if they can still get it up as often as when they were 20?? Women dont even think about asking that. But men.. he overstepped my boundaries and with that turn to rabbish in my eyes. But i decided to continue to watch his show, wondering what more he has to offer 😁
Anyway, we are on the rooftop, ordering drinks. He was openly overly tipping a waiter. Not discrete. cheap again. At some moment he went to the table next to our to give a compliment to a young girl that was heavily pierced, her boyfriend who had similar look thanked for compliments. I didnt understand what and why did he do that. Maybe he wanted to make me feel jealous but i was more like confused, like wht-confused? 😁
We were then talking about love of his life who passed away long ago. Another story to show how good he is. Entertaining part feels like over. When men tell us, potential sex objects, about whom they have fucked or even worse love stories, we dont get horny 🤣🤣 we dont think about sex. Worst seduction trick 😁 i liked his love story but i didnt believe in it.i cant explain why.
Time was around midnight and bar was about to close soon when my canadian friend decided to use very last option that would make me want to get laid . Anyone ready to guess? I know u wouldnt, this shouldnt been happening irl maybe in movies 😁. are u ready? My canadian friend without any warnings , all of a sudden, opens a spagat /split on the floor, on the rooftop, in front of all guests. The couple with piercings start to wow.. and i start to smile.. am i inside a movie production? And then: Why did he do that? Because i said that i can open split??! A 50 years old man wealthy and obviously healthy, had spent like 5-6 hours in hope to get to my vagina and he is still not even close. Give up!
I gave a stupid remark to his split : u might feel uncomfortable tomorrow, as u most probably had stretched some muscles. U should have warmed up before blablabla .. he looked satisfied and a bit surprised. On the way out to the elevator he was still with "are u sure, u dont want me to come". Yes i am, i am not available sir. And he is like, i dont care, what if we like each other, husband is not a problem then🤦🏻♀️ what a bullshit. Why all these lies?. we stepped in the elevator , we were alone and here comes the last attempt when he pulls me to kiss.. and i am like: Hell, no! And he misses my lips, i back.. now i got enough and this ends now. I left elevator , didn't even look back. No one night stand!
Next day, he was not on the fair.. most probably left home to canada, fair was halvfull. Many guests come just for that first day experience..then the fair is over. Indeed, all exhibitors and visitors, look tired and some had hangover 😅😅 some smelled alcohol 😆😆 some didnt even show up on meetings booked 😁
that evening we were invited to a very fancy nightclub , this time sellers and buyers will have even more relaxed atmosphere for talks.. i had a great outfit for dancing..i love Barcelona, walked all the way to barcelonetta and danced my ass off ..meeting americans, europeans, asians, ppl from all over the world. I still remember the first song i chose to danced to, it was "Ride it" , Regard.
All in all it was a great trip 💗💗💗 i still dont know what to do with this year invitation 🤷♀️ Should i say yes ? Am i going to meet that canadian and i wonder how our conversation is going to look like if we meet again 😁 exciting thoughts fill in my head 🙃🙃🙃
