One time a week, every day, every second day, once in a month???? How often do we need to fuck to feel normal?
Men and women vision on number of fucks is different. Because we function not the same way, not just gendervice.
A normal description I hear from men is to suspend their needs. Many living in celibacy weeks cause they believe that the experience will be better the longer they wait. I dont know if it is true or bullshit, i am not a man, but guys believe in it and i hope they get good sex as a bonus after Long time of no sex.
My opinion as a woman who only represents herself is that we women do not function same way. When I am horny I can wait 1-2 days, then i onanate (obs! should be masturbate, but in swedish masturbate is not used, both genders onanate 😂), then i get mad and unpleasant. And the last stage i lose interest to sex, it turns more to fights and less lust. Celibacy is a big fucking bullshit, if i go through it I will not be a pleasant person. No.
I had a fucker , around my age, experienced, from Poland. He was not highly educated but logical. He told me that sex should be regular. If you have it one time a week, your body would want to fuck once a week. Two times, u will be horny two times a week. But keep it regular, no interruptions so that ur body will be expecting sex regularly. He had right. We fucked once a week and i was always horny once a week. Sometimes we increased frequency to two times a week and i was horny every time. He was absolutely against interruptions, he would leave his job to fuck minimum once a week. Would book hotel often with a bathtub, adjusting to where i am. And we will have like 3-5 hours to talk and fuck and have a bath.
The man i meet today is for celibacy, he thinks that the more we wait the more horny i will be when we meet. It doesnt work on me and i dont know how to explain to this idiot that i am not capable to wait.
In general adhd has a shortage of patience, to wait is a torture. Now it is more than one months and all i have in me is a poison, a lot of it. I am no longer horny. Feel miserable. Our conversations are fake cause I hate him. But his brain is incapable and limited.
People who think that they can change adhd by forcing their societial or other idiot rules are wrong. Do u really think that we dont want to be patient, to live in celibacy? We do, but we cant. If things dont spin around me I feel dead. So every time he asks me to wait is like a knife i wish to screw through his useless piece of shit of heart.
When u read this you might think, oh shit adhd is scary and dangerous! It is not, but why do u want to bring her to the edge if her already short temperament?? Adhd is fun when u keep it positive and poisonous if u turn it to bad mood. While u read this piece u can probably already understand that i am flipping out. I stopped already being horny, so when he writes me that he is , i just shake my shoulders, cause i am empty. I told him i feel an empty room in me, i have to fuck. Byt he is not capable to understand me. Only ppl who actually relate to my present condition are ppl with adhd or similar.
But as all adhd we always have a solution to everything. Its actually funny that with our limitations we still capable to survive and find solution to all problems and we will present that solution as if it is 100% sure case.
Solution 1 for me, when i lose all lust and feel empty, is to find a good erotical, sensual, tantrisk or nuru massage performer. He will perform it, put my senses back and we will fuck. Maybe to have two sessions, depending on how damaged i feel. Always work on me. BUT its not an easy task , you should know that very few can perform it right, majority of guys are desperate liers with handicapped hands. If u know good one feel free to recommend.
Solution 2 is to releases her, just say you are not right fucker, u r incapable to satisfy. We are real ppl, adults, we can see and handle the truth. Do not try to change adhd, it is only possible with medication which is based on some weak drug and i dont think is good for us..so u as a human, u should not try to change it. Its a genetical condition.
Solution 3, allow her to fuck around, she will calm down and will be fun instead of spreading poison, being angry. Let him/her fuck around.. dont be worried that she/he will fall in love, i am personally not capable of it. And no one falls in love with us once they experience adhd.only if we manage to hide it. So if u r devoted to keep her foe future fucks, let her fuck around IF u urself are not capable to fuck her as much as she wants.
So how many Times to fuck? I would feel good if it happens two times a week or one long one time a week. I dont want to have it so much that it turnes into something usual. So 1 or 2 times a week is good. In between i will find my kicks in dancing, clubbing, meetings, etc. I say no to sex suspension! If u think that suspension works for u, make sure that ur partner is of same opinion and if not let her/him fuck around while u hang a big lock 🔐 on ur dick! 😁🤣
P.s. i always write on mobile phone and it logs me out often so i dont have possibility to double check the text before publishing 🙈, sorry for that 🌺
