"I have empathy for others thats why I said what I said."
Question is - Did u mean what u said? Nope, u didnt. What a nice description of a lie 😁 he didnt mean what he said, he just felt empathy and thought that his lie is the solution 🤔
This raises a lot of questions for all previous statements u have said dude. Was it all empathy or ur true words?
Main reason to why some ppl say as they think is that u dont have to guess or read between lines. Those ppl are normally hate objects, not welcomed. Because empathetical guys dont want to say or face the truth. And those who dare to hear and say it are "bad guys".
I told him to stop with his empathy 💩 when it comes to me. I dont need his pity or concerns about my overly sensitive soul. I am an adult and strong enough to handle the truth. there might be consequences of the truth said but it is better to be clear with what u stand for than a pile of Beautiful garbage words u dont even mean.
I am a bit disappointed. I dont know why adhd ppls ability to be true and real with others and themselves is considered as antisocial behavior. Why would anyone behave differently? What kind of ppl are these empathetical guys? Shouldnt they be called liers? 😁
Empathy is not entirely wrong, i can accept it. I do understand and apply it when it is related to for example death and illness. Thats it! Is my dress ugly, does not require empathy in ur reply 🤣🤣 it demands your true opinion. Otherwise why on earth i would ask? To hear ur empathetical 💩😁
I feel sorry for guys focused more on "empathy" than on being free to say what they think. These guys are normally victims or victimised. empathy is harmful. Because it is a weakness that could be exploited by thugs or selfish ppl. My brother is stuck with my mother for many years now, he had opportunities to live and work abroad but my mother stopped him claiming she is alone, dying, sick, whatever. So he, his kids, wife are stuck in the village. He cant tell my mom that she actually ruins hia future. Empathy, not wanting to upset her, not capable to say how he feels. Selfish people are those empathical ppl should watch out for! Because u will be targeted and used.
The man i fuck is extremely empathical. Which partially explains why he is alone. He has no ambitions to get rich, to have family or children. His life is job, old mom and house to take care of. And me has one task which is to force him to meet and fuck. Once he asked me, why i cant just dump him when he is ready to dump me 😁 my unempathetical straight forward true reply was - cause no one dumps me, u asshole 😆 but i could have replied empathetically "cause i think u need me" 😹😹
I had to travel like hundred kilometers away to force him to meet me even though he "empathetically" asked me to wave this weekend and meet next. Empathy doesnt work on me boy. When we met he suddenly went shy 🤢🤮 i hate shy guys. Fuck u shy guys. Dont meet me, shy guys. Go somewhere else shy guys 😆 here i am with the greatest fucker of all times who is actually shy outside sex. Finally when he realised that he behaves like a sissy, then it went more promising and we could play 🤣
Maybe i have too high demands on men. How can masculinity be a high demand ?? Its fucking basics. All in all i ended up masturbating home. Was horny but since he wasnt up for sex i had to masturbate, like three times within 8 hours 🤣 and his reply was - oh great, next weekend we fuck. But then i was thinking - does he say that cause he feels empathy (poor little thing that had to masturbate) or he actually wants to fuck??
Empathy creates confusion, unclearness, irritation for both sides. You, who cant say what u really think, are carrying a burden of all words unspoken. Time after time u explode. One of my absolute favorite comedy films is Angry Management. This movie is devoted to ppl who cant speak their minds. Empathy is ok but try to be like 10% empathetical but 90% urself, not vice versa.
This empathy 💩 suddenly made me think that my fucker might actually dislike me, adhd ppl are rarely likable thats a fact, but maybe he is too empathetical to ask me to fuck off. Can you understand now how many things can get complicated just because u want to go be empathetical ?! 😏
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