On one of the sex site i observed something funny, i didn't know that this even existed. Some men listed on their sexual preferenses, what turns them on when it comes to women, a quality named "shyness". They ticked a box "shyness" 😂😂 which means some guys, i would say like 30%, finding shy girls sexually attractive?!
I had sex with one of those guys. I was new and i behaved reserved and become a bit shy cause he was very attractive guy. I will never stop talking about him, but yes, Erik was and is the most attractive man i ever met. And since i was always considering me inattractive, i become insecure and maybe he read it as shy. Erik is never going to find my blog and i am going to use him, if not already used before, as example when writing.
I asked Erik, did he really find shy girls attractive, he replied as usually very short , "some times". But i know that he liked them more than some times. He was looking for feelings he had when was younger, electric feelings, butterflies. He was romantic inside, yet cold on the outside.
I am not a shy person, but gigglish. And when i giggle it might be taken for shyness cause i am trying to stop giggles. They are fucking strange if comes from nowhere. Which happened recently. And he, whom i met, wasnt Erik, whom i left long behind long ago, but this other guy he was happy to see me "shy" and he said "so sweet when u r shy" ✨🦠😁. He liked it. I call it wishfull thinking, i wasnt shy 😁. Next i pulled myself to him (am i shy now? 😁) and felt he had an erection. The power of shyness 👏👏
Nevertheless i dont think it goes further than that. A shy girl is going to have problems if she doesnt switch to a hungry woman. Shy means just like in case with Erik, insecurity because of the different reasons, in my case was his outstanding look. Shyness is not a good sex sign unless he is a giver. The shy girl will lose all pleasures of sex if she just accept what she is served without finding it pleasarable. If she is lucky she will enjoy, but most women wont which explains why less women can cum during real sex. Erik wasnt a giver. Men of "a giver" type are my favorite when it comes to sex. Cause i am a good reflector of what they give , thats also a talant, to be a good receiver 🥰
On the other hand, are shy men sexually attractive for us women? For the record, we as women didnt have that choice on the same sex site, there wasnt a box to tick against shyness. Interesting. Obviously the sex site had a professional advisor who knew that shyness is not the attribute women wanna see. What can i say? Good advisor. Shy guys do not turn me, in all my ads i even ask them to never ever contact me 😁. Because i will certainly use it against them.
In the end i just want to add that there is nothing wrong to find "shyness" sexually attractive ! With one exception, if that pleases ur ego. Then u most probably seek confirmation than good sex. Otherwise, yes please, fuck shyness and shy girls. I am sure u will cum anyway, just make sure that she cums first 😉
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