Her word is as firm as mans word ! or
She is like a man !
These are very highly valued compliments to women in the Middle east. But in the rest of the world, these are very sexistic expressions, assuming that women are less good, worse than man and should be happy to come close to men's status.
Both those expressions was applied to me. I was proud to be seen as good as men. I was proud to be on the same level as men. I was rude as men, liked to threaten, pushy, determined and even ready to fight just like men.
But my outfits were not masculine. I never liked lång pants, instead either dresses or skirts. Feminine and fashionable. I never even owned jogging or training shoes. Feminine from the outside and masculine from the inside 😁 what a combo!
The problem that i have today with masculine inside is that i am very hard towards men. I want to see there hard side but all i see is softness. To challenge their borders and throw on their face weaknesses that they cover very well makes them lose selfesteem, selfconfidence. Be quiet. Almost asking me to fuck off. Anything but fighting back.
What is the normal reaction if someone calls u thing u dont wanna be associated with? You say those words are false, u fight back. Thats normal reaction. But men give up. I wanna see a fire, a thunder, but instead he shows ashes. Turning off moment. Not sexy. Weak. Toni Braxton song "he wasnt man enough for me" was not written for my case but often feels like no man just enough man for me.
"Be quiet and adore me" is what men like
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