How often do u have bad sex? For some of us it happens occasionally, for others it has become a normality. What is bad sex? I dont think we have clear definition of it untill we actually find ourselves in that "seat" 😁
Previously i had very good fuckmate 😁 (refuse to call friend 😏). He had adhd and he had very good oral skills, in fucking in general he was a pleaser, very experienced in general. Not goodlooking but he was always delivering so i didn't mind 😁 i wasnt strict and demanding, i was ok with him meeting others. We both had freedom to meet others. At times i was not ok with his pushy way of handling me. Every weekend he was ready to fuck. And if i said no, he was still chasing me throughout a day and i wasnt comfortable to tell him what i was up to. Its none of anyones business! Privacy is privacy for a reason. U keep it to urself!
Just to remind u, i am not that amazing fuck u will never forget 🤣 i am not amazingly goodlooking either. But i am kind of myself 😁 no hidden agenda. He liked calm and enjoyable way of fucking we normally had, he said. Normally women dont like calm sex he told me as a reason which quite honestly didnt sound conviencing. Anyway i was always his plan A, while he was always my plan B. And he knew that. No hidden agenda !
Once he found a new woman on the side, which i was happy about cause they were both available. She kind of loaded my burden off, so i was ok. He was not interested in any other relations than sex. He met that woman several times and i was informed about their activities, which was not something i like to hear 😁 anonymous stories are ok but not from someone i already fuck. But he liked to read and listen to my sex adventures, turned him on. I dont know why, i never feel like those guys. Why would other womans pleasure turn me on? I wanna have all pleasures, she should fuck off with hers 😂 isnt it logical to feel that way ?? 😝
Anyway..after long break, like three weeks, we decided to meet again. The first thing i noticed, his oral skills has changed. This oral was not something i like or prefer 😁 i like slow tongue, not pushy. He should lick as if its an ice cream he just bought 🍦, not like ice cream that was under sun and dropping so he has to lick very quickly to have it all in his mouth🍨. The speed change made me quickly think that it is how he pleases the other woman. And that single thought (remember brain is an important part of in sex) turned me off, cause all of a sudden i saw in all his movements something he is normally not.
I didnt cum that time. Physically and mentally impossible. He forgot how i like it! And i dont like what his plan b likes. Or am i his plan b now? No fucking way 😂 this was last time we met. He wrote me under one year wishing to meet but i said no without explanation. Men can be very sensitive if they fail to deliver, so i thought it would have been selfish of me, especially if he is plan b. Why should i expect to be treated better than i treat him? In the end i used another reasoning to make him stop writing and since then he stopped.
After one and a half year from first case i got into similar situation. Again 🤣🤣 i dont even know why i cant simply fuck, instead of analysing during fucking 🤣 none of us fucked under almost two months. Its a long period for someone who had more frequent sex. Which is why never do such a long break guys ! As a result we had what i call a "clische" sex 😁 what is a clische sex? It is one of those bad sex types according to me (some women actually like it)
Here comes more details:
1.Expect short foreplay or nothing at all
2. Immediately going down on u cause he thinks that after two months celibacy i should be hungry for sex and just cum. Which is not true, for some of us it has an opposite effect.
3. After oral, he performs hard sex. I hate hard sex, he knows that. Cause it is what all men think that most women like. But this specific man knew that I hate hard sex. Cant stand it.
4. He cums, i didnt. Its not possible to cum when he has Lost his touch, forgot my likes and dislikes, when he performs sex thats all men like and he knows that i hate. But he forgot.
5. Total time of the intercourse is about 30 minutes 😅 could have veen shorter.
This is a very bad sex, worse than the first bad sex described above. All i had was pain between legs that many men think is a sign of a good sex. No guys, this is a sign of a bad selfish sex if she is in pain after 30 minutes.
This diary input may sound like a complain but it is more like an observation. Many ppls sex life is not what it should be. If i were in a relationship with any of above guys i would have brought to their attention that sex was bad, but I chose to not. Right or wrong? I think it is wrong to not to mention. Many might ask why i didn't do anything to turn sex to something better? I actually
did 😁 i faked 🤣🤣
did 😁 i faked 🤣🤣
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