Guys, guys, guys ๐๐ u wouldnt belive it !!๐ย i got my first anal orgasm ๐๐the one that few women experience and i thought i would never ever ๐๐ but lets take one thing at a time!
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holy shit" chapter is for girls and guys that fond of anal sex ๐ maybe it turns u on or u wish to try it. Here is a thing, u need a knowledge for that before u try.. knowledge, based not on porn, but on real life experience ๐ and finally you have someone to show u "the way" ๐ and that would be me ๐ณ๐ ๐ i know, i am not the shy one in the crowd ๐

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Before i start to explain anal sex issues, I would like to mention initial problem I always had . That would be vaginal pains during sex. Many women has it, it makes us stop to get sexual satisfaction and instead of pleasure we concentrate on pain. That sucks big !!! ๐ค
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There are different type of vaginal pains. Some caused by lack of foreplay, no lube, she doesnt get wet enough. We are not going to talk about those. My pain is caused by long penis or rather short vagina, different name for the same problem ๐. When u have a short vagina, around 8-10 cm, then long dick push the end of vagina creating a wave of pain. Very extremely unpleasant. Under many years i was refusing dicks over 12 cm, but today the problem is solved even though it requires one specific sex position ๐ so i hope my solution for anal and pains will work for u guys! Here we go ๐๐
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Lets start with what u need for analsex. Lube?? Yes ๐ everybody knows that ๐ but before lube u need to obtain bags of PATIENCE!
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I have made many mistakes with anal sex so today my official stand is : "I hate analsex". I still do, thanx to all guys that had no clue what they were doing, bloody fucking amatours! If u meet experienced guy for ur first try, then u r lucky.ย Very rare though. Normally u will meet a douchebag that watched porn and thinks that he knows everything as soon as he sees ass ! Anyway, back to business ๐
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We start with a WARMING UP. Warming up is a process that might last many months. In my case it took 7-8 months. The idea is that every time he has sex with u , he also takes care of anus but no penetration there. Eventuelly you stop reacting strongly on anal touches and no longer feel threatened, u stop tighten the muscle. To penetrate a tighten muscle is painful, not pleasarable and its a rape in my book. Harsh words have to be spoken!ย
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We normally had what i call a "triple treatment" sex.ย I promised previously that i will give u introduction to it ๐ so here we are ๐ triple treatment stimulates all parts of perineum (in Swedish- mellangรฅrden) and with that woman gets very good orgasms, no matter if u plan vaginal or anal sex. Its a great sex position aimed for both to concentrate on pleasures!
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It is performed as following:
Woman is in doggy position with a vibrator against clitoris. I use satisfier vib type but u can try whatever u like. Satisfier kind of sucks clitoris haha and it sounds like a frog, so i call my favorite toy "frog" ๐ธ๐ธ it looks like below. I am very attached to this toy guys ๐ ๐

At the same time he penetrates vagina himself. Then he holds another vibrator on, around, up and down anus, stroking, not forcing inside. He normally uses below vibย but u can use whatever u like. He had even one very little vib lookingย like crooked thin finger ๐

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A type of vibrator u use is not essential, important is that you have all three parts activated:
1 - satisfier on clitoris
2 - mister dick in action in vagina ๐
3 - vibrator around anus
Stimulation of these three parts leads to enormous pleasarable sex ๐๐คฉ๐ย
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Eventually i have noticed that i stopped having vaginal penetrarion pain during triple games. so i could Enjoy fully, not being worried of coming pain. At times sex was so enjoyable (that what happens when u stop feeling pain) that i didnt want to cum. so i started to drag "back" coming orgasm ๐
and even more enjoyable if u learn how to keep orgasm on the verge of cuming but not letting to cum ๐๐ endless Enjoyment so that u dont want to culminate ! Fuck orgasm! ๐
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Here how the position looks like:

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U can variate , for example, he could be standing on the floor and she is in doggy on the edge of the bed.
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The important trick of "triple treatment" is that eventually the whole perineum (in Swedish , mellangรฅrden) feels like one, so penetration of anal feels like vaginal, u feel slight difference in feelings inside the deeper he goes but not at first ๐ so at times when he penetrared a bit i just felt like enormous pleasarable tickles in vagina.. then afterwards i couldย ask - did u just do something in the backdoor? I told u to not to touch me there! !! Asshole!! ๐คฃ he would never confess, but i know he did..its just i couldnt feel it the painful way i used to feel, that is what was confusing ๐
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So what happens next? ๐
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After 7-8 months, in my case, finally one day he decided to perform anal sex with shortย a bit deeper anus penetration with vibrator, the pink one, and it was very enjoyable, i was as usually confused.. I couldnt differ if he had vibrator inside anus or vagina ๐. It felt same but different. Next time he tried with his natural tool. And i cum anal way that day. For the first time. Wow! And I mean waaooww ๐คฉ๐คฉ
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Huge difference between anal orgasm and vaginal/ clitorial. Anal orgasm lasts longer , it gets very screamy ๐
, very enjoyable longer time. He tried to close my mouth ๐คญ๐คญ, poor neigbours or maybe lucky neigbours that have the honor to hear loudly someone to cum while it is Cold,ย snow and depressed on the outside ๐๐คฃ i would have been inspired if heard someone cum ๐คฃ
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anyway,ย the difference is that anal orgasm is not as deep as vaginal orgasm. I usually describe vaginal orgasm as a flower that blossom in high speed untill its fully open. And there are different levels of vaginal orgasm - the deeper the stronger โค๏ธ.while anal orgasm starts from upper part inside anus, more like massive tickles, not towards vagina, but in opposite direction. Since i had it only once, happened very recently, i cant provide with more details I am afraid ๐ but next time, if i will ever experience that again (oh God please let me feel it again ๐) i will pay more attention ๐ย
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After i cum, a huge laugh attack filled in the room ๐๐ wtf have we done?? You little asshole ๐ i was not ready , didnt know . surprised. He didnt plan it either as i understood. He saw something that made him to take decision. It was very gentlyย performed.. i love gentle.ย Rough analsex u see in porn is not my thing. In general i am not a roughsexย ambassador ๐ for me there are two types of sexual Enjoyment, mental and physical. I always prefer and chose physical satisfaction to mental. To me rough sex is more like pornographical thing that turns on those who watch it but dont lead to orgasm irl..ย never happened to me ๐ย
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Important for girls is to not to rush in the hands ofย amatours, dont belive if they say they can and want to do anal first or second time u meet, be patient and find a right man, not ons, not a joker but dedicated to sex man. A sex freak is better than a normal guy ๐. There is one sign that should immediately ring all alarms - if man dont like to lick anus, he is always a wrong man to have anal sex with! Say "no" directly! Dont trust ur anal to an amatour! Dont make my mistakes ๐ ๐บโค๏ธ
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